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Getting ready for kindergarten doesn’t have to mean adding more “learning time” to your day. Sometimes the smallest everyday opportunities are the ones that build the most confidence.
🌟 Kindergarten Quick Tip: Let Them Be the One Who Asks
This week, look for one small opportunity to let your child speak for themselves when you’re out together.
Maybe they can:
- Ask the librarian where to find a book.
- Tell the cashier “thank you.”
- Ask a relative for something they need.
- Tell the server which drink they’d like.
- Ask another child, “Can I play?”
It’s tempting to automatically speak for young children—especially when they’re shy or taking a long time to find their words.
But kindergarten brings lots of moments when children need to communicate with adults and other children without a parent beside them.
Give your child a few extra seconds to try before stepping in.
🏠 Try This at Home: The “Can You Ask Me?” Game
Choose something your child needs during the day—a snack, help opening something, a toy that’s out of reach, or another everyday request.
Instead of anticipating the need, encourage your child to ask you for it.
You can even make it playful:
“Pretend I’m your teacher. How could you ask me for help?”
Then switch roles and let your child be the teacher while you practice asking.
It takes only a minute or two, but it gives your child practice finding the words they need before they’re in a new situation without you.
💛 Encouraging Reminder
Your child doesn’t have to be outgoing to be ready for kindergarten—quiet children can learn to speak up for what they need, too.
📚 Resources of the Week
Book & Buddy Gift Sets for Young Readers
Looking for a meaningful gift that’s fun and supports kindergarten-ready skills? Pair a favorite picture book with a stuffed animal, puppet, or character buddy. It’s a simple way to encourage storytelling, conversation, imagination, and a love of books.
Read Book & Buddy Gift Sets for Young Readers
10 Simple Ways to Build Print Awareness Before Kindergarten
Your child doesn’t need to know how to read before kindergarten, but they can begin understanding how books and print work. Discover 10 easy ways to build early literacy skills using signs, menus, recipes, food packages, books, and other things already around you.
Read 10 Simple Ways to Build Print Awareness Before Kindergarten
Until next time,
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